The-Dream Addresses Break-Up With Christina Milian In Open Letter


The-DreamSince news of their split was revealed earlier this week, both The-Dream and Christina Milian have been quiet regarding the situation.

Outside of Dream’s rep confirming the separation and pictures of the singer with a new woman surfacing, details were unknown.

In an open letter, posted at Dream’s official website (, the singer breaks his silence, claiming their break-up wasn’t caused by another woman, but rather personal issues between him and Milian.

Dream, however, remains very general in his explanation, not delving into any specific details:

Read the letter, titled “In My Own Words,” in its entirety below:

First I want to thank God for the trials of life, without them we can’t know purpose!

I would love to tell the truth as to why my relationship wasn’t successful, but today that is between me and Christina. Its easy to say that it’s because of another woman or a new relationship but truthfully, IT’S NOT.

I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for misleading everyone into thinking everything was fine and okay when we knew problems existed for awhile! I wanted to speak up but we decided it wasn’t for anyone to know. I would NEVER intentionally hurt a soul and everyone around me knows that! There was so much going on in me and Christina’s personal world that I tried to deal with it as delicately as I could and tried to regain my footing. Instead of being direct in order not to cause even more hurt or hurt someone’s feelings, I carried the weight in secret!

I am Human and people fall in and out of Love all the time… This is Life. Nothing’s promised or perfect, neither am I. I am not proud that I lost something we once had…LOVE! I’ve always been a Loving Father, Hard Worker, Generous, Stern and Eager to prove myself. My faults are I can be irresponsible and an ass sometimes, but I HAVE NEVER and WILL NEVER be a malicious person or wish harm to anyone, especially those I love or the mother of my child. I’m sorry for the embarrassment to everyone involved! If there’s anyone to blame and you can’t fathom this happening, please blame me and me alone for not being upfront! Even though we were trying to overcome personal things between us, I was just simply scared and embarrassed to let everyone know we WERE FAILING and HAVE NOW FAILED!

This is not to justify anything, it’s true emotion! It’s a real thing that involves real people! I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.

But I was reminded by my MOTHER that I am not “Superman” and its okay to lose sometimes…

This too shall pass! And everything will be fine!

~ Terius Nash ~

  1. He’s a man who makes a mistakes during da marriage,He tried to make a work but he coundn’t so The Dream confess on his website so he address the situation and move on with his life.Dream also wants to put dat rumorz 2 rest to continue on with his music&careeer

  2. What a loser. That’s why you should know a person for more than a year before you marry them. And you allowed your marriage to fail. Don’t blame it on you being “Human”.

  3. Keep it real my brother from another mother and move on to the next one!!!

  4. This is why our young men have so little respect for the women that were built to lift them up. He did the same thing to Christina that he did to Nivea, cheat on her and then lie about it! And now he has four kids that will grow up knowing daddy couldnt be a man and keep his penis in his pants… He may be a musical genius but he is domestically impotent. Then he had the nerve to bring God and his mama into it…smdh. Wonder how many hits he has to write to pay all that child support?

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