Ray J Has It Out With Cocktail During ‘For The Love of Ray J 2: Reunion’

By Allen Starbury   /   Published 02/09/10

Ray J and Cocktail going at it on 'Love of Ray J' ReunionThe reunion show for Ray J's VH1 reality show, "For The Love of Ray J 2," got a little crazy as it came to a close on Monday evening (February 8), when "Season 1" winner Cocktail showed up and aired out Ray's cheating ways and "Hollywood" attitude.

As Ray came onstage, greeting "Season 2" winner Mz Berry with a hug, he was noticeably irritated at the presence of last season's winner.

Right away, he ripped into her.

"First off, you know we cool. I don't know why the f*** you come on the show anyway...", Ray J started.

"I'm not all Hollywood. I ain't gonna be a certain way," Cocktail interrupted. "I was invited. It's not like you invited me, or called me up 'cause you acting all Hollywood, saying some sh** like you weren't gonna be a certain way."

The former "couple" then started arguing about "he said, she said" rumors about both being unfaithful. Cocktail claims Ray J was unfaithful right away, sleeping with her friends, and other women while on the road.

Ray, well, he said Cocktail was doing the same thing.

"Cocktail, don't even sit up here and play me like that, because when I was going to the room with another girl, you had another girl in the other room with you," he explained. "Let's get that straight. Beyond that, you was on our tour bus, taking girls back and having private time with them on a one-on-one session. Cut that sh** out."

Cocktail responded, putting all her cards on the table. She said the only reason she came on the show was to give advice to Mz Berry, so she wouldn't go through the heartbreak she did. Then, said he's misleading all the girls on the show.

"You're misleading these ladies, making them think you're really a one-woman man, ready to settle down," she said. "While you're telling them that I'm crazy party girl, you telling me you got a girl at home. [You said] you don't love me. We're on tour, doing our thing, having fun, and then you're going to a hotel room with another girl."

Heated, Ray J stormed off stage: "F*** you bitch," he yelled.

The argument continued backstage, as the "Season 2" cast listened in.

"You're way outta line Cocktail. I gave you your career. I made you who you was," Ray J yelled. "I loved you," Cocktail responded with tears in her eyes.

The show comes to a close, as Ray and Cocktail continue to argue.

Wow! The Reunion Show's host wrapped things up, and explained it best: "We have a bit more reality on our reality show then anybody expected. I have a feeling this story is not quite over."

What do you think? Was that real or scripted?

  • tae

    i think its real because ray is a playa a real playa playa.....

  • ryan uzzi

    Yea i think it was all setup because he is in love with cocktail and didnt want anything to do with mz berry after he smashed a few times. but its all good tho i like cocktail better newayz i dont thin mz berry is the sh*t newayz

  • Alias

    This is so fake...ALL OF IT!

  • nychris

    i think it was definitely real. everyone already knew about ray j's promiscuous ways, and now cocktail is confirming them. i thought it was really nice and courageous to try and warn the ladies, but i'm pretty sure they already knew since they signed up for the show's SECOND season (there would not have been a season 2, at least not so soon, had he been a one-woman man). cocktail is beautiful and intelligent and she deserves much better

  • Vee Palmer

    I hope coctail n ray were an act.
    If not women, please stop letting celeb men or the chance to be famous ruin selfworth.

  • mercedes1010

    Ray j is so phony! Reggie bush should kick his punk ass!

  • http://dvsinc.blogspot.com/ VENGEANCE IS MINE!!!!!!!!!!

    THESE ARE JERRY SPRINGER CONTESTANTS AT THEIR BEST....

    BAD PUBLICITY STUNT....

    THIS IS JUZ MO' MEDIA WHORING!!!!!

  • Baby Dame

    Cocktail should be intelligent enough to know that Ray is trying to cop that guap and cop a season 3. I blame Ray because he really put it down in the bed on this bitch. Spending money and taking her out to eat with rides in the Lambo! Now she sprung in love. It's OK to smash the bitches but don't give em' first class treatment if you ain't gone wife the bitch! Now she gone stalk the nigga everywhere he go.

  • D-Nice

    All this girls have to keep it real. Somebody "famous" who's on a reality show looking for love, is only trying to get publicity, not love, and this includes the girls. It cannot be expected of anyone to fall in love for someone in such short time. The person that they show on t.v is not the same person they are out in the real world, without the cameras.
    Specially with the reputation this "boy" has, come on, you can see his immaturity from a mile away.

  • duck ms. wisconsin

    Only GOD knows whether this was real or fake. I felt bad for Mrs. Berry. "Ray J" GOD is good, and you are blessed. My advice to you is read Romans CH 12 vs 1.

  • niasha

    I think ray j is sooo fake he showed his true colors on how he acts towards woman he makes everyone believe that he is such a good guy when really he's a disrespectful jerk

  • PEACE

    GOD Is in Controll of Everything Why Play with People Hearts Like that Ray J Mz Berry You are better than that He is still a Child playing with toys. Let God find your Man and send him to you. Not you looking for him, He will find you Mz Berry. And as for Cocktail and Ray J let them have each other because they are just kids they do not even have a glue on LIFE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL PEACE.....................

  • cal

    i hate ray now....HES A PIGG!!!!! am not proud of cocktail but she set him set!!

  • nene

    look rayj you need to be streight up because you no your not ready for mz. berry she seems to be a good woman. your all up in another woman face after picking mz berry [jaguar],she crazy for even kissing you i wont be surprised if you2 end up together but god dont like ugly. p.s so be a man and do the right thing keep it 100 sound familiar

  • Original DfDubb

    I've never even watched this show, but that cip wuz enough for me. A weak "man" is easily rattled. It sounded like two broads or two chihuaha's fighting.

  • http://cdbaby.com/jsmoothrap J-SMOOTH

    ALL FAKE

  • Chris

    I wish they would give cocktail a reality love tv show. That would be fun to watch.

  • miss lisa

    I would like to say miss berry u need someone better than rayj cause I see he aint no man. I was really happy for him but I see how hollywood he was and for them bitches we all knw they was fuckin and suck ray j and one more thing some of them bitches had some fucked up teeth and skin and the bitch from the first ray j just played herself she get old and wanted more money.

  • Lani

    CLEARLY, somethings wrong. He hasn't seen Mz. Berry for 5 months!!? When you wanna be with someone, you make time to see them. THEN he has nerve to be saying he still thinks of Jaguar! Also, if you listen closely right before Jaguar was finished being interviewed, you can hear Ray J telling her that they need to talk after the show... What the hell is he doin?!

  • barb

    Ray J is doing a show to make some money everybody knows we were tired of ugly ass flava flav it was entertaining the girl that hit a lick was "danger" mz Berry is trying to be blind just to fit in where she fits in i like her but she got my nerves on the reunion show

  • kennywayne

    ray j wuz a pimp on that show but when he said the b-word on t v he fuck up

  • lost mind

    Keep it pimping fam lol

  • jay b

    It dosent even matter if it was real or fake. I think there was alot of realness to it, but what bothers me is, Ray!!!! your soppose to be the p.i.m.p., How in the hell you let here talk all of that SHHHHH, IT. And you gave that backstabber a carrier. Dog thats getting played for reals. People usually get rubber burned on them when the goto jail. Not in there face like that. Shes a snitch!!!!!!!!!!

  • sherbert546

    i believe that ray made his mind who he wanted cocktail is in the past season 2 old news mz. berry he upgraded and he found someone he can trust and rely on to be with so ray if mz. berry the one i wish you the best of luck marksveages 4-sho aka marks ville la. holla

  • Dretruth

    sad reality are reality shows. This is what these desparate hoes want...for the love of ray j.

  • http://www.beatwranglers.com beatwranglers.com

    Wow. Very interesting. Cocktails show is coming up next

  • iLListLight

    I think it was real. Ray J showed his true colors....thanks to Cocktail! ;) luv her!! poor Ms. Berry. She was so bummed and didn't know what to do. you could tell

  • http://loveofrayj niisha

    yeah

  • prettieladie23

    First off Mz. Berry is desperate. She is 32 years old and should know better than to settle for ray J knowing how immature he really is. All she see is Money..On the finale with Platnium she is standing there with her hands together pleading for him to pick her. Whatever she gets she deserves. Women need to think more of themselves.. Obviously money comes before selfworth these days.

  • http://loveofrayj niisha

    well ray J was rite because he came out respectful she should of never cames on the show she was jeaulous of mz.berry and ray . but he was wrong on one point the part of not seeing mz.berry in 5 months it is i watch the flav flaver show leave them a lone just be yourself all time ya'll to mach a good couple thank for the love ray j

  • http://loveofrayj niisha

    thanks ofr the show of letting the use show so we can watch

  • candice

    ray j you need to gow up u either want to be a grown ass man or not?Get it together boo!!!!

  • http://loveofrayj knisha smith

    THEN he has nerve to be saying he still thinks of Jaguar! Also, if you listen closely right before Jaguar was finished being interviewed, you can hear Ray J telling her that they need to talk after the show… What the hell is he doin?!

  • Carla

    Much respect to Cocktail, (whatever her reason)... it's rare nowadays to see a woman looking out for another woman..They are usually caddy and trifling- ex: the wolf-pack and Jaguar, and yes I said Jaguar bec she should of respected the fact the she wasn't chosen. My question to her is, does he still look that appealing knowing how he treated Mz.Berry these last 5 months..Mz. Berry its been said before you need a man, not a lil boy and this and you didn't find it in him.. Case in point: Kim K

  • http://VH1 maria

    i think ray needs to be alone and just messing around thats his shit and that was hes going to be for life a player and he could play Mz Shit(berry) She a bithch anyways

  • ccccc

    Mz Barry you can do so much better than this, i hope you know better than to think you come to a reality show to get a man. Ray J if your were real when cocktail said all that stuff if your a man enough you should have just kept quiet or tell her to excuss you like a REAL man would do but all that back and fro

  • C Nizzle

    Yo RayJ! Dude you didn't keep it 100. Come on Bro Ms Berry deserves better than that. To disrespect her by showing blatant love for Jaguar was not cool. Yo man it's really time to grow up. Platinum in the finals. Are you kidding me!

  • C Nizzle

    Jaguar I have som advice for you! Run as far as you can from this guy. RayJ is Ray Joke! Please dude get your shit together.

  • http://yahoo.com charlie

    Maybe Ray J taking 5 months to see Ms Berry was out of respect for her, he knew he wasn't ready to be the man she wanted him to be but at the same time he was man enough to choose a good woman.

  • http://fortheloveofrayj ERON WALKER

    well, in all honesty cocktail u flaw; oh well if he was laying up with the u and the homies, it wasnt not ur buisness to put the man on blast on his own show. sit u wasnt saing all that mess when u was getting it but now all of a sudden theirs a lady in the picture u want to show out, shit if i was mrs.berry i would have put ya ass into that wall 4 disrespected the person i loved.... u a bi-sexual ass hoe neways so go get ya brains fucked out. on the real.... one love ray j and mrs. berry....

  • jmoney

    honestly i kinda agree with cocktail but at the same time i agree with ray j. this is ray j's second show and i feel like he just want to play with girl's hearts but on the other hand he could really be sincere about his relationship with mz. berry but i do wonder why he has not tried to at least contact her or see her seems a little suspicious to me but i really cant take sides because i dont know the full story

  • jmoney

    an cocktail got way out of line with the comments she said she really did not have to come on the show to put him out like that if she's really classy she would have said this when she so called saw him after the day he picked mz. berry

  • angelica

    i think that it wa real and that ray j is only m aking this show to make money. he isnt trying to find love just sex. so why get both money and sex if they allow u too. dont get me wrong i love ray j but these women should have known that he was a player and he wasn't lloking to change. all he wanted was sum pucci.

  • lexusdriver

    Ray is a fool and Cocktail is worse. i just hope MZ Berry moves on with her life

  • lexusdriver

    I also lost respect for Jaguar. I mean the entire time she was on the show, she did not want Ray to touch her. Now all of a sudden after he has picked his winner, she is on the reunion show acting like she wants him and kisses him?? what s up with that? Besides the only reason ray wants her is because he did not get her (smash her)on the show and a playa dont like to lose

  • lexusdriver

    @Carla.. girl please cocktail was not looking out for MZ Berry she was jealous as hell of her. because ray was playing her like a well tuned piano and she went on the show to show her AZZZ not to warn MZ Berry.. Besides MZ Berry is a big girl she dont need cocktails help with Ray

  • Zeik

    Do I smell (sniff, sniff) a Cocktail reality show of her finding true because of this now? I think so. :D

    VH1 isn't fooling anyone. 3-4 months now; this ho will have her own reality show with a couple man whores to compete for her every needs, or more like getting attention or a career, Nice way to get your name out there again Cocktail. I can't wait for your show.

  • Juan Pardell

    You're a disgrace to Latinas, Cocktail. I thought you were an educated woman. If you are, ACT LIKE ONE!

  • http://ballerstatus.com Julie

    Fake or Real, RAY J IS A PUNK! Mz. Berry is too much of a woman for his punk ass. She is classy, elegant and a real woman. All Ray J is interested in is sluts. Grow up little boy!

  • jamekea

    i think that cocktail is telling the truth cuhs ray j is ayee playa and i think that mz.berry should leave him alone cuhs deep down i truely think that ray wants to settle down with jaguar.

  • Marie

    It was all REAL. NOT scripted at ALL.

  • Kenny Hudson

    She made Ray look like a Jerk! Ray J is out of control and smashing too many chicks!

  • jamie

    It was all set up..cocktail and rayj rehearsed wht they were gonna say to one another before the show.the name calling, the fightin, and the tears were bogus!
    the only legit thing outta that whole spoof, is rayj showed how much of an ass he made outta himself.get it together guys! and please take another improv class ray cus that babyfit you threw was stanky.

  • sharnell

    ray is still a player-i feel settlen dwn is on his mind its just tough being around millions of beautiful hot and horny curios woman...me personally would Never go on television with a house full of woman sleepin on bunk beds like we at girls scout tryna win the same guy....!crazy-and mz berry u appear to be stable,just wait the rite man will come your way-besides these man aint ready for a Real Faithful relationship these says anyways.

  • ron

    ray j is a real no talent.i mean his claim to fame is being brandy's brother!..lol! he acts like a teenager..look how he sits,like a little beeotch...he aint a real man...just enjoying his fame (brandys lil bro!) these women dont like him. they like the fame.dont be fooled by mz.berry either.she aint different from the rest of them...gold digger with kids!!...

  • lisa

    hes a joke!! just a player

  • angel

    I think Cocktail was telling the truth about Ray J and its really sad that he is that way it seems all the girls know how he really is Mz.Berry your better off without him and Juaguar its best you werent picked cause you would have probably had your heart broken Ray J s obviously not done being a player but I think eventually he wants to end with a nice girl like Mz Berry or Juaguar

  • Carla

    lexusdriver, I did say whateva her reason even if its fueled by jealousy. I'm still not going to knock her. These nasty so called celebs need to be put on blast, he puts his family on the show to make it look more authentic that he is really ready to settle down.. Ms. Berry knew she got played bec when asked if she heard the last segment,she answered no, yet everyone else that entered from the back knew what was going on on stage..

  • Negra

    I think it was real. Mz. Berry you are a 33yr old woman that is looking for love but Love You 1st. There is nothing wrong dating a younger man,but get a man that respects you. He is in no way a role model for anyone's children. Ray J needed money and decided to do a FlavorFlav. If you want a man ask GOD to give you a man that loves Him first; then he will know how he is to treat a woman. Show the world and your kids that you will not tolerate disrespect from any man.

  • paperbagboii

    Well mz berry didn't even no about jaguar she didn't watch the show back stage and I didn't see this season just reunion cuz that when good shit happen and save me time but from the look of it the cast full fake boobs cocktail loooooookkkk bad lol hey u need rebound guy I'm here

  • letitia butler

    ms berry you are a beautiful woman who deserves a man not an imature boy who thinks it's cool to sleep with everyone.men like that sometimes end up with spiritual shit being put on them and they won't even know which woman did it to them.

  • Kadijah Hearn

    I believe ray j way wrong cuz i believe mz. berry is there for him and he stuck on being a player......... SO RAY J GROWN UP AND BE THE MAN THAT YOU FANS KNOW YOU CAN BE...... PLUS COCKTAIL IS CHILDIS. THE BEST IS MZ. BERRY SO WATS 4 YEARS NOTHING.... IF YOU NOT READY TO SLOW DOWN WHY YOU PLAYING THEM GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.ballerstatus.com Kerri Monroe

    I dont know Ray-J but from looking at thee show I think what he is doing is wrong.Ray-J should just come out and tell the womens that he dont want an se-relationship. he should just tell them that he's looking 4 an ACQUAINTANCE nothing serus u know.Right now he just misleading them.Woman do have feelings an so do men.We all dont know if this is realy realy on ont.To me on the other hand I think tihs show is just all about the money and fame.

  • yumad2

    I fault all those dum azz women, why go on national television too look for a man when you can pray at home and ask God to send you a good man. dah

  • playu

    ray a playa but all the ladies are gold diggers, or looking for that fame

  • ILNDGRL

    HA HA!! THIS SMALL DUDE IS A JOKE! JUST WONDERING...WHERE WERE THE OTHER GIRLS? THEY WERE PROBABLY THE SMART ONES AND DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING MORE TO DO WITH THIS LITTLE GUY. SOUNDS LIKE HE'S GAY TO ME!

  • TASHA MAXWELL

    I DONOT THINK RAY J IS LOOKING 4 LOVE. HE IS STILL PLAYING BOY GAME, HE WANTED TO HAVE IS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. BECAUSE IF HE IS TRULY LOOKING 4 LOVE HE WITH FIND I. HE NEED TO STOP MAKEING SHOW THAT GIVE FEMALE HOPE, THAT ARE TRULY LOVE 4 LOVE AND NOT 4 GAMES, AND BE A MAN ABOUT IS AND KEEP IT REALLY. GOD WILL PUT THAT PERSON IN IS LIFE THAT HE SHOULD BE WITH WENT THE TIME COMES

  • Erica

    my opion i think that cocktail is hella better then mz.berry cause she
    from mackramento baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    we 2 hood for you RayJ!

  • sophia206

    look. he is hot but he needs to be real with someone so he can feel good about his self and do a damn good job at being sexy.

  • sophia206

    holla cuz he is sexy right and i just want to say i would personally fuck him in my sleep ok just he is that sexy.

  • The Man

    Hahaha ''It's not about the looks it's about the emotion'' Haha what a fag. You can tell he's lying. Why does he get mad if he has nothing to hide?? He's just mad cause Cocktail burned him. ''It's all about the emotion'' Haha you are so gay. Keep it real or shut up.

  • angel

    ray j is a sorry ass looser,plus he has his mom talking bout who is good from who is not mom you need to check your son he is a man user please tell your son what goes around comes back around where is your precious daughter man no where around see what im talking about miss berry is a classy girl shes lady berry,ray you are a punk cussing like a girl you should be wearing a dress and heels.

  • nora t

    I THINK IT WAS REAL. RAY J IS JUST LIKE EVERY FAMOUS PEOPLE JUST WANT FUCK. HOW MANY BITCHES YOU KNOW WOULD FUCK A FAMOUS PERSON IF THEY WAS BROKE NO ONE. THIS BITCHES TRY BE ON TV . I THINK THEY MAKE US LOOK LIKE HOES AND THIS BITCHES LET THEM. WOMAN NEED MAKE MAN WORK FOR THE PUSSY NOT GIVE IT 2 THEM FOR FREE ARE THE FIRST 10,000. THEY GIVE AWAY. MY PUSSY COST A MILLION I BE DAMN I FUCK AROUND LIKE THAT...... DUMB HOES

  • Ninny

    Ladies, one question. What ever happened to finding a good man, what ever happened to self worth. I did not see either one of this qualities on the show, beautiful girls, but such little self-respect. Competing for the affection of such an immature man. I guess wisdom does come with age, and Ray j has a long way to go. Ladies to allow love to find you, you have to first love yourself.

  • http://gmail.com niecy brown

    Man this was so funny. They should have showed everything else though. I wanted to see how him and ms. berry are going to work out and what she thinks of ray-j and jaguar kissing

  • trumusicgen

    I am so glad Cocktail, came on there and bust his whole lil game open, he aint nothing but lil ass wanna be player, that made it off of his big sis success, can't stand him, and if Mz. Berry stays with him its obvious that she is jus desperate for a boy, cuz he aint a man.

  • l Norton

    Ms.Berry, I think your on the rebound to soon to go after love., Ray has the party boy life and would never end up being truthful, look past the forest for the trees.

  • Upinair

    As my wife and I watched the show we both commented that Flav's show was better because Flav has more personality than Ray J. When Ray J ran out on the reunion it showed me that he's just a little b****. You see how he offered Cocktail money to stay off of the show? Like a trick he probably only gets women because he spends a lot of money on them.

  • dominic

    ALL IM SAYIN IS....I JUST WATCHED IT FINALLY AND I WAS DISAPPOINTED THAT THIS DUDE AINT SEEN MZ BERRY IN 5 MONTHS? DAMN! WHEN I FIRST SAW HER I WAS ON HER WINNING THE WHOLE THING IF HE WAS SERIOUS ABOUT IT.BUT THEN HE REALLY MADE ME MAD BECAUSE IF HE WAS GON SPEND HER LIKE THAT....I WOULDVE LOVED TO MEET HER.....DAMN SHE WAS GROWN AND SEXY

  • Daisah

    I certainly hope that it is mandatory for
    everyone to get tested for stds before all of the smashing that they do on these type of shows. They are just so nasty and all of the diseases are real.

  • Lala

    Cocktails a dumbass bitch! Ray dont want her no more so she comes on the reunion show crying like a little baby! She's so in love with Ray that dumb bitch needs to get over him cuz she ugly as hell!

  • v

    Much love cocktail for u keeping it 100!!

  • jacky!! biotchexxz hehe

    i think ray should just dont listen cocktail and get on wit his life wit mz berry be straight and justt MOOVE ON! =3

  • emily

    i think cocktail is fake

  • LadyTaurus

    It was not fair to Mz Berry, I wanted to see her an Ray J talk about their relationship. This was very disappointing nobody wanted to see cocktail she was the first season. It just wasn't cool. I think that Ms Berry should be given a second show.

  • veedo

    What do you really expect...who really cared if that ni__h finds love....duh!!!
    real brothers was just watching to see what chick looks good!!!

    RAY J is a straight....GUMP!!!!

  • la la

    Ray i would fuck you daddy and be real with you

  • la la

    Ray i love you... You are sexy a big freak and you are very real... I would love to meet you in person

  • ms. Apples

    hey ray. u can find ur real queen in detroit. Just want to know y u never casted here for ur show. But wish u da best. Ms. Apples.

  • DB

    I dont even know why Cocktail even come to that reunion. Shes out of line there no longer a couple, he move on and she should too and for her to think she needs to give advise to Mz Berry, give me a break

  • Bobo

    That shit sounded real to me. But who really looks 4 love on reality t.v? They all in it 4 da $$$

  • S MAC

    I see Cocktail is rollin with Jazzy Management now whats up with that! I think it was wack for her to come on the show with that shit lol

  • Lisa Love

    I seen her with Jazzy in Hollywood shit that man is so sexy so is it true she is with Jazzy Management? I know that young lady Saaphyri He knows his shit I would love to have one night with his sexy ass ray jay is a boy Jazzy is A MAN!! I just seen his youtube info jazzysgetsomegame fuck hes sexy and jazzy you cant make no money with Cocktail fuck with a real one from the east coast...

  • Coco

    Coctail aint nothing but a piece of azz. She is a reality whore who was also on bad girls club. What has she done to become a household name? I'm sick of black men selling out black women. I dont understand all the hype over white girls. They get fake asses- fake full lips- sun tans- hair weaves- and who do you think they're trying to copy? Can somebody tell me what ever happened to black love? I would love to discuss this... 1harmic@gmail.com